Why men don't like bossy women

You know this because you wouldn’t see so many bossy women every day if they understood how they were perceived by men.

Women these days are taught to be independent, controlling, hard edge business women. Women are taught they can do anything a man can, and in some cases are even given preferential treatment in jobs. The bad part comes when these women can not separate their business lives from their personal lives and are still bossy and pushy outside of the office.

When men see women at work, they indeed do have to respect them and see them as equals. But, men outside of work do not want to be around these women. At work they have no choice, but in social situations, where they do, they will run like a cold nose from these types of women. What are the signs women may be too bossy.

If a woman tells a man things he already knows like he is going to fast in the car, she is too bossy. If she tells a man what to do when she could more easily do it herself, she is too bossy. And if a woman orders a man to do something that he does not want to do, she is too bossy.

I don’t mean that a woman has to be a doormat. Quite the contrary. I have learned a lot from women who seem very sweet and kind on the outside, but are truly hard as coffin nails in constitution. They make their men happy by always smiling and being kind and gentle in whatever they do, but they don’t let their men get away with any b.s.

If a man tries to get too bossy, they will cry and use their feminine wiles to get their way. A good man will not want to hurt a woman, so they will do what a woman wants without even knowing it was her idea to begin with.

This works a lot better than being bossy. Bossy women simply remind a man of his mum, his schoolteacher, or his bitchy boss at work, none of which he wants in a mate. When they say men want a girl like their mum, they don’t mean one that tells him to clean his plate and wash behind his ears. Bossy women simply put a man off and make him look for a kinder girl.

So, if you are a bossy woman, don’t expect too many dinner dates anytime soon, or at least not too many repeat dates. Try simply to loosen up, develop a kind and gentle character at least in social situations. You can still use tricks to get your way without being perceived as too bossy. In the end, you will still get your way, and get your man.

Tall Girl