What is abuse in a relationship

What is abuse in a relationship? Abuse it's when you don't have all your needs met and get ignored when you want to be heard. For example, emotional abuse would be when you want something from your partner, as simple as just nice treatment, but you get ignored, put down and disrespected.

When you really want something and you explain your partner your wants and needs, but he/she always rejects you says it's your fault, or always blames on you without even trying to understand your point of view, that's abuse.

There are different forms of abuse, there is emotional abuse, physical, financial, sexual and etc.

I explain basics of abuse which start from psychological view of it. Two people need to form safe relationship for both of them to feel trust and happiness. If abuse is present then only one partner is able to meet his/her needs, while other is completely ignored and blamed for everything. Listen to your heart. Somewhere at the bottom of your heart you can feel what is right for you and you can feel when someone simply refuses to be kind.

Abusive partners often don't have emotional empathy required to have a good communication and understanding of each others feelings.

If you suspect you are abused in your relationship but aren't sure, it's o'kay to get a second opinion, talk to you your friend or counselor or someone who you can trust and who has a good relationship with others.

Abusive partner often will not even know what he is doing, until he is learned to depth of depth how much pain it causes you. Only until he is able to empathize, it would be very frustrating to change your partner. The good news is that people do teach each other how to treat one another. Even abusive relationship can turn in a good one if two people are willing to try to be kind to each other and protect each others heart. Kindness and empathy is a keystone of any great relationship. Relationship can be saved only when to partners find a compromise and teach each other how they want to be treated.

Abuse it's when your partner clearly knows how to hurt you and does hurt you. Abuse it's when you want to be heard but you are ignored. Abuse it's when you want to leave your partner, but he doesn't let you go. Abuse can be in many forms. But a feeling of lack of trust and sadness and fear should at least hint you that it's not right, that it is abuse.