How to make someone happy

Question: Dear Tall Girl, how can I make my girlfriend happy? She is nagging me more and our relationship isn't the same as it was before. If you could give me any advice I would really appreciate. Thank you.

Answer: Dear Fred, the easiest way to make someone happy is to find out what they want and give it to them. Ask your girlfriend what she thinks can make her happy. Very often people don't even know what they really want, so I'll give you a few ideas how to make your wife happy or how to make someone happy.

Most people want attention and appreciation. Look deeply in her eyes, maybe you are so busy taking care of household and doing your own thing that you never really stop and look at each other any more. Look at her and smile to her. Flirt with her, laugh with her. Don't be serious around her and try acting silly.

Yes, being silly once in a while is a good way to bring excitement back in your relationship. Women love unpredictable men who can be different sometimes.

Go to a party together or some special even, something that you usually don't do. Women love variety in life, take charge and arrange a special day with her.

Another tip to make someone happy is to tell them what they want to hear. Women love to talk, so listen to her and try to understand what kind of feedback does she want to get from you. Tell her, rephrase what she said and agree with it, it will show that you understand her. Women don't want advice, they just want to be understood, she will feel closer to you this way and will feel happier.

Different women have different needs. You need to find out what needs she has.

Some women require gifts and expensive trips or exotic places to make her happy. If you can afford, go ahead and shower her with that, she would be very impressed and happy. The deeper need the woman has, the happier she will be if you give it to her.

Talk to her about her dreams, visions and expectations.

This way you can find out what she values in life and what could make her happy.

Experiment with different things. Don't do just one thing all the time, because she will get bored with that, but try to impress her once in awhile with something new.

Some women really value words of love and appreciation. Other women love if you spend time with them, but remember what you consider a long time together could be completely different in her opinion. So, be careful and pay attention to her needs. Make happy someone is easier than you think, if you really want to make someone happy you will succeed in it.

Don't just assume though what makes you happy should make her feel happy too.

Most men would get very happy to have a brief sex, but she is more likely desires a long romantic dinner and prolonged conversation.

One more tip is you be happy yourself, your mood and energy can be contagious to her and would make her happy as well.

Also, pay attention to her interest level. Just because you want to make her happy doesn't always mean that she wants it from you. Maybe she wants to be happier with someone else and keeps you as her close friend.

If you both have similar interest in each other, than you would definitely make each other very happy.