How to make someone attracted to you

I get a lot of emails and questions about attraction. How to make someone attracted to you is very important to most of you. Here I can share with you what I know and think about attraction.

First, of all, you need to find a willing partner. For example, some people will never be attracted to you no matter what you are going do for them. While others may or may not be attracted to you. It's a lot easier to work on attraction if your partner or object of desire is at least initially interested in you.

To find out if they are attracted to you, is really easily with opposite sex...Look them into eyes. Yes, it's the first criteria whether you would be compatible partners or not. If you are both interested to have a prolonged eye contact that feels good to you, it could lead to something more.

There can be other type of eye contact. When you are looking at your brother, mother, friend and etc, it's something that wouldn't lead to anything. But if you measure with eye contact the initial attraction, it could be a pretty good sign it would go somewhere.

Second step is to go the same places together, so she would see you more often. She doesn't have to talk to you, but just see you. People who see each other quite often are becoming comfortable with each other and like each other more. It would be good if she saw you around other people, so she would see that others like you too. If others like you and respect you, she will like you even more.

After you are done that and she got used to seeing you, being with you...Try to mix giving her a lot of attention and ignore her at the same time. How do you do that? You need to show your interest in her, flirt with her, give her attention, but then disappear for some time, so you will come across as unavailable, let her think that you have more important things to do in your life.

Don't overdo it though. If you become too unavailable she will think that you are no longer interested in her. So, keep it light and keep her interested.

Also, try to find out about what she values. You will gain value in her eyes only if you can offer something that she values in her life.

Maybe she wants a high social status, good morals, certain personality and etc. whatever it is if you can offer it to her, she will be more interested in you.

Have interesting life. Women love men who are ambitious and powerful.

Women love men who can be unpredictable and entertaining. You don't have to be rude with your jokes to attract women, some women will like your jokes, but others won't.

It depends on each individual woman if she likes jokes or not. Some women could be easily offended so, try to test her her before you joke too much with her.

Some women don't respond well to jokes and it just drives them away from men they perceive rude.