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If you are really like someone, it's very easy to push your crush away with your affection. If you want to make a guy to like you, give him time to grow his feelings for you. So often girls have crushes on guys but he is maybe interested in someone else and he is affraid of conflict with you. If you come up too strong with your affection, he wouldn't understand it immediately but could assume that you are crazy and you treat every man this way. Just because you have a crush it doesn't mean that he shares the same feelings to the same degree as you do. Take your time and let him notice you little by little. Give him some space so he could start pursuing you. If he doesn't pursue you no matter what, maybe he is simply not interested and it's not your fault. How to make a guy is a question of many women...First of all, if you ask guys what would make him to like you, the answer "just be yourself" doesn't always work. If you were yourself you probably would tell him how much you like him and scare him away. Be yourself, doesn't mean to stalk him or try to win his affection. If you want it in your heart for him to like you, to need you and return your feelings, you need to give him some space. Guys are afraid to be pressured to anything. If you email him, text him, call him, more than he can handle, he would become frustrated and would want to back off. Give him some space and show him that you can have life without him. Men love women who have interesting life, independent and not clingy. If you are attracted to someone it can be hard to stay away from your crush because you want to win his affection, but be very careful with that. You can try for yourself and see. You can try to do what you feel is right to do, or you can try different approach and see which one works. Unfortunately, you can't have crushes on 2 people at the same time, so you would have to go with your better judgment this time. It's very hard to keep distance because you want to be close to him, so do anything you can to give him chance to pursue you. If nothing works, maybe it's better to give up and to find someone who really likes as much or even more? What do you really want? Do you want to love or do you want to be in love? Falling in love is much easier than make someone to fall in love with you. If you really want a guy to like you, then you need to focus on his needs and desires but not yours. Whether he will like you or not also depends on what type of personality both of you have. If you are outgoing person who likes to connect, share your feelings, but if he likes to be alone and self-involved, you could be the only one who is in love. Some people like to connect and be close to others while others prefer to be distant and do other things in life than focus on relationships. Do what your hearts tell you to do, but be careful and observe your steps. Life is fun, even if you could get hurt at the end, the risk and the process is well worth it. Don't take your life too seriously, if a guy will like you and return your feelings is great, but if not, be sure that there are plenty of men who will need you and love you for who you are. |
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