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How to love husband is very simple. Just do what he wants, be nice to him in a way that he can appreciate. You need to fulfill his needs. Most common needs in a man is need for appreciation, sexual fulfillment and maybe some other unique needs of certain men. Women are usually much better at being nice and more sensitive to a man's needs (comparing to men trying to fulfill a woman's needs). Most ladies are nice in the beginning, that's why men marry them. Remember yourself before you were married, when you were dating. Remember how affectionate and nice you were to him. Try to look at him the same way and make him feel desired, special and appreciated. Love your husband You can love your husband how you want, but you can show your love or prove your love to him only through meeting his needs and wants. For example, he needs you to be nice to beleive you love him, but you aren't trying so hard to be nice to him...So, to show him you love him, you need to give him what he needs the most. You need to meet his needs not because he begged you for days but because you want to make him happy. Show him it makes you happy to make him happy. For example, if he wants a sexual fulfillment, if he wants to make love to you, make love to him not because it's your spousal duty but because it makes you happy to make him happy. He wants to feel needed, valued and important. Love is very unique for everybody. It maybe be hard for you to comprehend why your husband values certain actions more than others, but trust him and give him what he wants. People feel loved when others meet our needs and wants. More about love Loving your husband is to want to see him happy. If you want to decrease his suffering, make his world a happy place for him, it means you show him your love. Keep trying, keep asking and you both will know what makes you both feel loved and accepted. Be kind to your husband. Men do feel rejected easily, even if he asks for something that you can't give, kindly explain it to him and give him your reasons. He wants to be understood and he wants to be heard. Men want to connect emotionally with a woman but only with a woman who is patient and kind with him. Show him your patience and show him your kindness. A world can be very cruel, so treat him the best you can treat him. Show him the love that he never felt or knew about. Accept him the way he is and encourage him to be his best. Men do want to please women too. The more he feels appreciated by you, the more he will appreciate you. |
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