Why men cheat on their wives or girlfriends

Why men cheat on their wives and girlfriends. It's very simple answer that can be hard to describe, but it all comes down that some men are more needy than others and some men have lack of morals or intelligence or both.

If a man is very needy, he might need lots of affection, lots of praise, lots of love and admiration that he can't get for some reason at home. He maybe knows it's wrong to cheat because he could get caught, but his desire to be loved and admired blinds him and leads him on the wrong path.

Some men can be completely focused so much on their own needs of admiration that they forget to think about a wife or a girlfriend. Some men so desperately want to be happy themselves, that they don't think they are hurting his wife or girlfriend.

Such selfish men think they suffer more without a lover than their hurt spouse. Yes, it's selfish, but it's reality. Some people are so focused on themselves that they are selfish because they want to feel happy.

If you truly want to be happy in marriage, then you need to find a person who will think your happiness is the most important. Try to find someone who is happy to please others and thinks about others.

Selfish people are the worst type of people you could come across by or marry. Selfish person isn't easily to spot but they would make your life a living hell once you find out the depth of their true indifference.

People with lack of empathy are the scariest, they won't only cheat on you but will also hurt you and torture you and at the end will put all the blame on you anyway.

Men who cheat are simply selfish men. Men who decided to commit but then broke the commitment are plain selfish and it's not your fault at all.

Selfish man with a need to be admired and praised, with no morals, will cheat in a heartbeat and will think that it's normal. Very often such men put blame on the wife because she can't make him feel good about himself or make him happy anymore. So, they choose a selfish way to find some happiness...for them it's to cheat.

Cheating is not so much about attraction to another person but also lying and deception. If a man can't share his heart and needs with his own partner, but goes and look for something else is simply selfish.

Should you blame him for cheating? He should be blamed for lying and misleading you more than anything. But because he has a need for admiration he can't be blamed too much about it, because it's beyond his conscious control. Some men will be attracted to their own fantasies if they don't have a mistress. So, it's only up to you both how much can you tolerate in a relationship and what does cheating means to you?

Define what is cheating to each other, so there wouldn't be any confusions or misunderstanding.