Signs of unhealthy relationship

One of the first signs of unhealthy relationship is when one partner tries harder and feels less satisfied in relationship than his partner. When one partner wants something from the other what he can't give, then it's unhealthy relationship.

Unhealthy relationship is when you feel pressured and uncomfortable and closed off. Some people are more open, more emotionally available, while others are more closed off from any emotional intimacy.

A sign of unhealthy relationship is when you feel unhappy, neglected and abused. If you feel like your partner doesn't give anything to you to feel you loved and protected then it's not healthy. For two people to be happy, they have to reassure each other that they love and care one another and trust each other not getting hurt.

If you feel hurt by your partner, if you feel your relationship is unfair, it's a big sign of unhealthy relationship. Healthy relationships won't give you everything you want, but it will give you most what you want. If you feel like most of your needs have been met in this relationship then it's good, if you feel like most of your needs aren't met in this relationship then it's not good and it's not healthy.

Talk to your partner about your relationship and how your partner feels about it. Because very often you think it's healthy and it works for you but your partner feels unsatisfied, wants to change something, but was afraid to speak up because didn't want to hurt your feelings. Healthy relationships bring joy not only to one person, but to both people in relationship. Both people have to find a certain compromise in order to be happy and both to feel satisfied.

Love in relationship is very important, but two people could still feel they love each other even if their relationship is completely unhealthy. So, just because you both love each other, it doesn't mean that your relationship is healthy. You both have to sit down and decide whether is your relationship is healthy or not and if it needs to be continued. If you and your partner are not comfortable to talk to each other about such issues, it means you don't trust each other on this level and it's not as healthy as it could be.

If your figure out for yourself that your relationship is unhealthy, you don't have to give up yet. It is possible to save your relationship and make it healthier. Don't give up hope to make it better, you both can figure it out where you can both compromise for each others happiness. It is possible to make each other happy without feeling bitter and neglected.