Signs of a bad abusive relationship

Signs of a bad abusive relationship can be hard to detect sometimes at first. For example, if a woman grew up in a household with an abusive father, then she didn't know any better and wouldn't know whether she is in abusive relationship or not with her boyfriend.

Women who had really good fathers, they know that it's possible to have nice, respectful man as a husband. Women who had abusive fathers they could be unaware that nice, kind, caring men actually exist and could love her.

If you think you are in abusive relationship listen to your heart, and see if a man you love wants to please and how much he wants to please you. Not too many men would be too excited to please a woman all the time, but you need a man who can at least give you what you need when you need something.

If a man wants to keep you safe, take care of you, does everything he can to be compassionate and protect your heart, then it's good, it's what it suppose to be. Otherwise, if a man never wants to do anything for you, if a man has no empathy when you tell him that he hurt you or that you suffer because of his actions then it's a sign of abusive relationship.

Women want empathy from men, women want a man to care about her enough to please her when she really needs it.

If you find yourself in the situation that you give and give all the time, but your partner only takes all the time and he thinks that's how it suppose to be no matter how much you hurt, it is a sign of abusive relationship.

You want a man who is loving not only in his words but in actions too. If he tells you he loves you but then he doesn't want to do anything to protect your heart and to protect you from hurt, then he is abusive towards you. Emotional suffering is a real suffering and if your man does not care about in his actions and doesn't give you what you need not to feel pain, then he is abusive.

Don't hide your feelings from him, tell how it is and how you feel, if he doesn't do anything to help you, then it's time to leave. You need a man who can at least try to make you happy, you need a man who at least try to show compassion and wants to please you in some way.

But at the end you have to decide how much you can handle without compromising yourself. How much can you handle in order to feel happy and satisfied with your married life.