How to get over a guy you love - how to get over a man you like

How to get over a man you like can be very challenging at first. Do you feel rejected, unloved and unprotected? Feelings of breaks up are horrible especially if it wasn't your idea or desire to break up. We like control things and events in our lives, just because someone wasn't loyal to you it's not a reason to be angry at yourself and others.

Let me explain you a few things. When a man broke up with you, his main goal wasn't to hurt your feelings, but his goal was to find his own happiness.

Something in his mind makes him believe that you can't or won't make him happy and it's not your fault he has this believe.

Men want to find happiness too and if you truly care about him as you thought you were then let him be without you.

Accept the fact that he probably is better off without you. It does sound horrible to think that someone would be better off without you, especially if you truly care about him.

Yes, it's very hard to believe but we can't always make everyone happy. No matter how much you try and no matter how much you want, it won't make to beleive that you can make him happy. It's all in his mind, he whether believes in happiness with you or not.

By wanting him to be with you, you could actually hurt him. This is the most difficult part to understand about break up, that a person who leaves he can be hurt if he stays. If he feels you are hurting him with your love and affection and devotion he would want to leave and there is nothing that you can do.

If he believes that his life is better off without you, then accept this fact to feel better too. How can it make you feel better that he leaves? Think that if you truly care about him, you will let me go to protect him from hurt and pain. But wasn't he a jerk to break your heart like that ? He can seem as jerk by not caring about you as much as you want him too, but doesn't want you not because of you, but because of his personal insecurities. He might be a highly insecure person with lots of hurt in the past and huge fear of commitment.

If you truly care about him as much as you though you were, you will accept the fact that you make him happy by not bothering him and leaving him alone. If your relationship was meant to be it would work out no matter what and if your relationship was never meant to be then it will never work out.

There is nothing you can do to fix, just accept the fact the way it is and make your man happy by letting him go and you could find your happiness in future too. Don't give up on your happiness, some day you will find someone who will truly care about you as much as you cared about him.

Pain will fade with time, so take your time to heal and don't pressure and don't blame yourself for anything.