How to gain confidence with girls

If you love girls but you don't have any confidence what should you do? First of all you need to evaluate why you have no confidence and after that acquire it. Many young have no confidence with girls only because they pursue wrong girls. If you are 19 and you are trying to date 18 y.o. girl, she is more likely is interested in someone older and more successful than you are.

Yes, young ladies still often prefer older and more successful men to date.

If you become older and more successful your confidence will automatically improve and you would still date younger women. If you aren't much older and if you aren't very successful then yes, you would need to work on some confidence.

Evaluate your looks first. If you are too good looking, many women would be intimidated by your looks, especially average or bad looking women. Many good looking guys often pursue average women and get painfully rejected only because she maybe thinks you look better than her. So, don't get frustrated if average looking girl rejected you, it only means that you are too good for her and you need to raise your standards. Start to date beautiful women.

If you don't think you look that good and you still want to improve your confidence, then learn to talk. Women get so bored with men who don't say much or who can't hold on to deep conversation. It's one of the reasons why women prefer to date older men, because older men talk more interesting. Women will love you if you can connect with them on emotional level. Women will chase you and want you if you connect to her emotionally.

Encourage your woman to talk to you and share with you her deepest secrets. Other secrets of being more confident with women is to try to lock your eyes on her. Look her in the eyes and don't move. If she will look into your eyes long enough she will start to like you.

Women who refuse to look you in the eyes you need to avoid, those women don't want any kind of intimacy with you. A woman who likes to look you in the eyes, will be interested in you more likely more than just a friend and she would be more likely be attracted to you, or even very attracted to you.

Don't be afraid to touch her and let her touch you. The more she likes you, the more she will want to touch you. If you met a girl who can't take her hands off you, it simply means she likes you a whole lot. Keep positive self talk and focus on her!