How to deal with being ugly

How do you know that you are ugly? Did somebody tell you that you are ugly or did someone rejected you saying that you are ugly?

Even if someone rejected you by saying you are ugly, it's only that person's opinion and apperantly she/he is pretty rude person anyway. Do you really value opinion of someone rude and unconsidered?

You are not ugly. There is beauty in every person. You could look different and unique, but definitely NOT ugly.

Look at mothers looking at their babies, most mothers love their babies no matter how they look. If someone doesn't think you look good, it's because they are insecure about themselves. They try to find faults in people that they don't like in themselves.

What if you struggle with extra weight? There are many reasons why some people struggle with weight, go to doctor and figure out why you can't loose it, but don't feel bad that you can't please other people.

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Try to be around kind people. If a person is spiritually advanced, they will see beauty in your and appreciate you for who you are. If God loves you, people should love you too...but sometimes we do want approval from wrong people. If you desperate to have approval from someone who is rude, you need to understand that sometimes people can't give us what we need and we should give ourselves what we desperately want from other people.

Even if someone rejects you for who you are, it's nothing wrong with you but that person has certain unique needs too that is impossible to full fill. You can't make yourself important to other people no matter what you do, you are whether important or not and it's not your fault.

Just because someone was rude to you and wasn't kind, you shouldn't spend the rest of life feeling bad...find what is positive in your life. I'm sure you have something good in your life. Focus your attention on wanting something else, pleasing someone can be very draining and exhausting, so better focus on yourself, your life, your health, your job, your close people, try please yourself first.

Realize that if you want approval from other people for your looks, it's to heal your past, to heal your wounds. If you were quite healthy emotionally, you wouldn't care at all if someone thought that you are ugly. But if you have a past hurt and wounds, it would bother you very much. When someone is hurting you, it's because they were hurt themselves, they are in pain themselves and they want pain to others too or they don't understand that they are hurting someone.

Yes, there are people who hurt others and treat others bad because of how they were treated. It's not about you. It's not your fault you can't please everyone. Find someone who will beleive you are beautiful they way you look. If you can't find anyone who appreciates you, beleive that some day you will and don't give up on hope. I'm so sure that there is at least one person in the world who will think that you are good looking.

For example, when I asked a little girl if she knows someone who is not beautiful (ugly) and she said "No. All people are beautiful." So, yes, someone will love you for who you are, sometimes you just want approval from wrong people.