How to be in control in a relationship

How to be in control in a relationship? Being in control in a relationship you simply need to be less interested. Every person who is less interested always control relationship more than the other partner. The less interested you are then more power you have in your relationship.

Your interest and investment in a relationship is not always conscious. Sometimes people have more subconscious needs and there is nothing that you can do...the only one thing that you can do is to find a partner who is more interested in your relationship than you.

Yes, it can be painful to be more interested or more invested in a relationship, feeling of having less control feels intoxicating and exciting. What if your partner is really less interested in relationship with you and has more power than you have? Then all you can do is to find a different partner or act less interested and less invested no matter how much it hurts you.

If you truly want control in a relationship, it's always better to start it from the beginning, because if you always had less power and then suddenly change a game to gain more control and power, your partner will be very likely to leave because he was comfortable with the rules before.

To have a true power and control in a relationship is simply to be less invested, less interested, and never be afraid to lose your partner. It sounds harsh and hard to do, but it's true power. You might not be ready for it simply because of your personality type and all emotional needs you have from your childhood.

So, do you want to be in control or do you want to be in love? You could have a great relationship even without having the most control in this relationship. Do you want control or do you want to be happy? It's not always about control, you could still be happy even if you don't have as much control as you ideally could. You could still be happy even if your partner has more power and more control in your relationship with you.

No matter how much control you or your partner has, you both still could work out your relationship if it meant to be. If it meant to be it will work out no matter what and no matter how incompatible you are, but if was never meant to be then no amount of control or power could save it. Try to be happy no matter what and appreciate your experience no matter how much it hurts. Try to be happy whether your relationship survives or whether you get hurt or not. Find positive in your every situation and cherish every moment and experience of it.